In common D/s relationships the sub only submits
occasionally and with definite short-term goals, perhaps for an evening
or the duration of a party.
In longer, committed
relationships many people opt for the Master/slave model, in which consent
is negotiated once for a long period and the consent given is generally
broader. Some people opt to be purely "sex slaves", while others who
prefer domestic service identify as "service slaves". Some slaves allow
their Masters or Mistresses complete latitude as to the demands that
can be placed on them. Such a relationship is known as "Total Power
Exchange" or TPE), where the slave has given all control to the dominant
partner, whether with or without a contract. Whereas in the Dominant/submissive
relationship, the submissive tends to have more 'rights', and be able
to use their safeword to stop a scene, a slave may not have that luxury.
A Master/slave TPE relationship can be one of the most difficult relationships
in the BDSM world to maintain, and requires special skills and experience,
on both the Master's and slave's parts.
Some
people opt to be purely "sex slaves", where their sole duty is to please
and pleasure their Master. Others who prefer domestic service identify
as "service slaves". As usual, there is much blending of the two, as well
as other classifications of slave. |